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Rupture and Repair: Teaching Engaged Couples to Come Back to Each Other
How a couple gets back to each other after a rupture matters as much as the rupture itself. Premarital counseling is where that skill gets built.
Money Identity, Not Money Math: A Better Premarital Money Conversation
Every couple knows they need to talk about money before the wedding. Most of them talk about the math and skip the meaning.
Conversation Before Contract: The First Shift in Premarital Counseling
Most premarital counseling starts with logistics. The Before I Do Method™ starts one layer up, with how a couple talks when something is at stake.
Cold Feet Before the Wedding: What It Usually Means and What to Do With It
When people get cold feet before a wedding, many tell strangers online before they tell anyone they love. You deserve a better place to bring those questions.
Three Mistakes Clinicians Make in Premarital Work (and the Question We Were Never Trained to Ask)
After hundreds of couples, three clinician mistakes come up again and again in premarital work. All three are correctable, and one question helps with each of them.