A COMPANION TO THE METHOD

The Before I Do Method™ Conversation Cards

52 questions couples never think to ask each other. Until they do.

A beautifully designed deck of 52 conversation cards built to spark the conversations most couples never have before the wedding. Money identity. Family scripts. Faith. Sex. Ceremony. Hardship. Use them at home, on a weekend retreat, or as premarital session prompts.

Launching October 6, 2026
A box of conversation cards titled "The Before I Do Method" with 52 cards for couples. Four cards are laid out in front of the box, each featuring prompts for discussions about marriage, feelings, family, and the future. The box and cards are on a beige cloth surface with a vase of flowers in the background.

What is inside the deck.

Each card holds one question, one prompt, or one reflection designed to open a real conversation. The 52 cards break into four categories, matching the core domains of the Before I Do Method™.

Foundations
Money identity, family scripts, life priorities.
Intimacy
Sex, physical touch, emotional closeness.
Conflict & Repair
How you fight. How you come back.
The Life Ahead
Children, career, faith, ceremony, hardship.

Choose your deck.

Standalone

$28

The 52-card deck in a keepsake box. Great as a gift or for couples who already have the book.

Order the Deck

Guide + Cards Bundle

$109

The Before I Do Method™ Guide plus the 52 Conversation Cards deck. Read the framework, then use the cards to spark the conversations.

Get the Bundle

Complete Set

$189

Guide + Workbook + Conversation Cards. The full Method in your hands. Ships October 2026.

Get the Complete Set