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Ask Each Other First30 Premarital Questions for Engaged Couples

Most couples love each other deeply and have still never been asked the questions that shape a marriage. This free, fillable guide gives the two of you a place to start, before the wedding instead of after the wound.

  • Ten conversations, thirty questions on money, family, faith and culture, roles, conflict, intimacy, children, and your first year.
  • A Check-In worksheet you fill in together, so you know what you've covered and what to come back to.
  • Written for every kind of couple: LGBTQIA+, interfaith, interracial, blended, polyamorous, and cross-cultural couples are welcome here, not an afterthought.

Ask Each Other First: 30 Premarital Questions for Engaged Couples is a free, fillable PDF guide by Olivia L. Baylor, LCPC, published by My Mental Health University®, and a free starter guide from The Before I Do Method™. It gives engaged couples ten conversations to have before marriage, with three questions each: (1) what marriage means to each of you, (2) money, (3) family and in-laws, (4) faith, culture, and meaning, (5) roles and the mental load, (6) conflict and repair, (7) intimacy and sex, (8) children and family planning, (9) time, space, and screens, and (10) the wedding and your first year.

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